Talking about
COVID-19
with older children
Some children may feel worried, anxious, or sad about what they’ve heard about COVID-19 through media or overhearing other people talk about it. Having an open and supportive conversation with children can help reduce any worries they may have.
Answer questions honestly, and keep your answers child-friendly. Consider using language or examples that are age-appropriate, monitoring how children are reacting throughout the conversation, and being mindful of the types of information that might cause distress (e.g. talking about deaths).
Provide reassurance. Acknowledge children’s concerns and feelings, and remind them that they are less likely to be sick with the virus, and if they do have the virus they will probably experience symptoms similar to a cold or having the flu. Let children know there are many adults working to keep your family safe: doctors, researchers, government, teachers and cleaners.
Provide them with opportunity to take action. Talk to children about the things they can do to look after their family and friends, like washing their hands, sneezing/coughing into their elbow, and letting an adult know if they feel unwell.
Provide a safe space. Share positive stories about this time – about the ways people have helped each other, and the special times you have had together while staying at home.
